Whether it’s a parent, neighbour, or older friend, knowing how to truly support someone as they age isn’t always easy. Many of us want to help but don’t always know what to do. Here are some practical tips to guide you in providing meaningful support to the older people in your life.
Regular calls or visits matter. Consistent communication helps older people feel valued and less isolated. Even a short chat can make a big difference.
Respect their autonomy. Instead of making assumptions about what they need, ask them directly. This shows respect and acknowledges their independence.
General offers like “Let me know if you need anything” can be overwhelming. Instead, offer specific assistance, such as “Can I drive you to your appointment on Tuesday?”
Help them stay engaged by encouraging participation in community programmes. Age Concern offers various activities and support groups that can be beneficial.
Gently watch for signs of isolation, forgetfulness, or financial trouble. Early detection of these issues can lead to timely support and intervention.
Offer to assist with technology or paperwork. Many older people may find navigating online services or filling out forms challenging.
Support, but don’t overstep. It’s important to strike a balance between helping and allowing them to maintain their independence.
If you need advice or support, Age Concern Auckland is a valuable resource. They offer a range of services and can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Visit their website or give them a call for more information.
Supporting the older people in your life can be incredibly rewarding. By staying connected, offering specific help, and respecting their independence, you can make a positive impact. For more tips and stories, check regularly for new articles on our blog page and share this post with others who might find it helpful.
Let’s work together to support our older loved ones!